Thursday, March 7, 2013

"Have I done any Good in the World today?

I found something out yesterday that was rather disappointing. 
 For years I thought I was my Aunt Ginny's favorite niece. 
 I thought I had a special bond with her that no one else had.
I went to her funeral yesterday and spent the day with many cousins and friends of my Aunt Ginny's, and I find out that they were also her favorite..
and that many had that special place in her heart. 
( Even though secretly I know that it was me that was her favorite, I will let the others go on believing that they were.) 
 
Aunt Ginny was special, because of the very thing I'm talking about. 
 She made everyone feel special. 
never seemed like she was in a hurry when she was talking to you
She was interested in what was going on in your life. 
It was because she truly loved those that she came in contact with and made the time to make them feel of her love. 

 Aunt Ginny taught me this valuable lesson. 
She always had time for me..as well as the many others demanding her attention. 

 
She taught me that people were more important than things and she constantly gave of herself.
 
 
She taught me that being cheerful and happy, regardless of our circumstances is a choice.
 
 
She taught me to remind myself to think of others, to go out each day and find some way to improve somebody else's life, rather than thinking about my own.
 
She really made me think. 
I want those I love to know that they are my favorites. 
 I want to make sure that I take the time to cherish family and friends. 
 
 
It's a good question. 
 
It's never too late to set goals, to improve to strive to be better.
I'm grateful for a wonderful family who are examples to me.
Each one helps me want to live a better life.
 
 
 

3 comments:

Billie Sue said...

Beautiful thoughts and words you have expressed. If we could just work at these qualities daily, the world would be such a peaceful, happy place!

mama jo said...

this was amazing...so true!

Abby said...

Sweet post - you hit it exactly!it