Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Two Ways to Live Life

I heard a quote by a very wise young man the other day. 
 He was talking about answers to prayer. 
 He said,
 "There are two ways to live life... 
One way, is as if nothing is a miracle... another way, is as if everything is a miracle."


All I have to do is look around me,
and I realize that
 "Everything is a miracle."

Wednesday, August 6, 2014

"And Thank you for a House full of People I Love"


As I sit here tonight, I am so grateful for the last few weeks. 
 I love having my whole family together.  
We've had a lovely time while the DeSpain gang east has been visiting. 
 Makes us feel complete. 
Then to have Nick come for Fish Lake made everything that much better. 
 I don't know when the last time was that we all sat down for dinner together.  
Thanks to Tyler for making that happen. 
 Everyone is busy, everyone is different, but that's what makes up a family. 
 We all love each other regardless of our differences, and that unconditional love is what keeps our family close.   So I guess summer vacation is coming to a close. 
 We have been together and made wonderful memories that I will cherish.

"And thank you for a house full of people I love."
~Terri Guillemets

Thursday, July 17, 2014

A Visit With Some Fine Ladies

When I need a bit of uplifting or feel a little tired, I sometimes feel the need to talk to my mother or one of my grandmothers.  
They were so comforting.  They also had a lot of wisdom.  
They lived through a lot, but somehow always managed to stay upbeat, kind, and loving. 
 What a great example the were to me. 
 Fortunately for me I have bits and pieces of them. 
 Not just my memories, but tangible things that remind me of them.  
Some of those things are fairly valuable, but the most priceless things are their handwriting.  
I feel their thoughts bring me closer to them than any "thing" they left behind. 
 Grandma Bagley's journal is full of inspiring stories of how she lived through the depression, the loss of her beloved oldest son, and then the war when she sent her two remaining sons.  
What strength she had.  Her testimony of the gospel is a constant in her life and something I will always respect and love her for, because of the way she lived her life. 
 Grandma Lundgren was just as strong and had such a cute sense of humor which is evident in her little notes stuck into books.  I love her remarks on life!!
 And of course there is my mom, who's love of her family, respect for her heritage and her testimony guided me gently throughout my life.  
I love to see her thoughts written down in her distinct handwriting.  


Thanks for sharing your thoughts with me today!! 

Thursday, July 10, 2014

Relaxing in the Garden- Glorious Summer


Can't believe we're almost halfway through glorious summer. 
 I love warm summer nights. 

 My upper garden has been a mess of vines for the last few years.  
This year we cleaned it out and added quite a bit more space. 
 So nice to go up my steps and hideout while reading a book or just star gazing.
  Perfect spot to relax in the evening.


I've always enjoyed the concept of "rooms" in my garden.  
Another lovely place to enjoy warm evenings is my back patio.  
Sometimes I just sit and listen to those wonderful summer sounds.


Something fun going on in the gardens around my neighborhood is our weekly lemonade gathering.
  Once a week we gather and enjoy a cool glass of lemonade, visit and just enjoy each others flowers. 
 It's nice to stop once in awhile and relax with good friends.

"Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass under trees on
 a summer's day,
 listening to the murmur of the water,
 or watching the clouds float across the sky,
 is by no means a waste of time."

~John Lubbock

Saturday, June 14, 2014

Flag Day, Mom's Birthday and a Shout out to all the Fathers!!!


It's a beautiful June 14th.  Flag Day.. also my mother's birthday. 
Missing her and wishing her a Happy day. 
 I am so grateful for her loving ways.  She was thoughtful, unselfish and kind
Always putting others before herself.  What a great example for all of us.
She lived a full and happy life.
 I am so blessed to have her for my mom.


I am also blessed to have Jim as the father and grandfather to my children and grandkids. 
 I couldn't find anyone more dedicated or loving to his family. 
 He loves them and wants nothing more than to spend time with them. 
 He has and continues to work hard to serve us.  
He's also the most handsome grampa around!!!


I am amazed at the dads in our family.  
They are totally involved in the raising of their kids.  
are such great fathers.  So grateful for their commitment to their families. 
 They love them and are raising a bunch of great kids!

I was also blessed to have the world's best dad. 
He was so much fun. 
 He taught me so much about enjoying life, overcoming obstacles, and staying positive.
  I think of him everyday.  

Happy Father's Day to all these incredible men!!!

Friday, May 30, 2014

Visiting the PA DeSpain Gang



 We've had a great time here in Philadelphia.

Becky and I hit the pavement, doing some serious shopping,
while the guys went golfing.

 We've been able to watch number 10 (Hogan) play some baseball.


 We've seen beautiful gardens
We've strolled through history.
The best is spending time with these guys.  Watching them as they go through their everyday lives.  It's so much fun seeing them come and go.  Love being with the eastern despain gang.  Sorry that our time with them is coming to an end.

Saturday, May 10, 2014

I Love being a Mom

I love being a Mom. 
 How could a mother be so blessed to be given the opportunity to have such great kids. 
 Having children can be a difficult, exhausting job, but it is also the most noble and grand adventure that a woman can ask for.
  I chose to have five children. 
 I have been blessed over and over again with the birth and life of each child.  
What I have done for them is nothing  compared to what they have given me.  
I always felt it was important to give my kids a feeling of security and warmth as they moved forward in their lives. 
 I had that growing up and I wanted them to have that same sort of childhood.  
My thoughts wander to summer time.  
(The best time to make memories)  
We spent many longs days at the racquet club.  Oh, those lazy fun days when we'd pack up a lunch and a few snacks and be gone for hours.  
Swimming, getting their little bodies warm by laying on the hot cement, that creamy frozen yogart. 
 Packing up to go home just in time for little league or a game of kick the can.  
I've never done anything that noteworthy, I've never been in the limelight.  
But I have rocked and sung to my children. 
 I have taken them swimming, played with them and watched them grow in to adulthood, 
cheered and encouraged them.
  I have loved them.  
I have been a mom. 
 I would rather sing and tell stories to my kids and grandkids than to any audience in the world. 
 When I feel my little grandson's arms wrap around my neck, 
when they cuddle in my lap and entertwine their little fingers in mine and say "hold me grama polly", I think my decision all those years ago.
 That of being a mother.
 It  may have been the hardest, most exhausting, most heartbreaking, ..most rewarding experience. 
 I chose wisely.

Saturday, May 3, 2014

I Went from Sunbeams to Choir Director!! OH NO!!!


When I was a little girl, my grandmother was in our ward.  I remember sitting by her in church.  As she sung the hymns she would point to the alto line and have me sing along with her.  It is my first memory of singing.
I've always loved to sing.  I sang while my dad played the piano.  I loved to belt out "Won't you come Home Bill Bailey," or "Show Me the Way to Go Home."  I sang in the church choir from the time I was twelve and always in school choirs.  When I was fifteen I was the youngest member of the Mormon Youth Choir.  
.  As I've said,  I've always loved singing.  
When we moved to this ward 36 years ago I immediately joined the choir. 
 It has been a blessing in my life.  This ward has the best ward choir around!  So many talented musicians living so close to one another.  
What a blessing.
I love to sing, but am not a great musician.  I never was good at timing.  I've always had to sit next to my neighbor, Betty, so I could follow her and get my notes right.  
And I hate to be in front of people.  I like to be in the back. 
 (I'm short, so it's easy to get lost among the taller choir members.)
Singing in the choir is my joy.
Not standing in FRONT!!!!

After teaching five little boys in my Sunbeam class I didn't think I would find 
a calling more challenging ..
But my new calling is much more challenging, terrifying, headache giving than any five boys in any Sunbeam class could ever be!!!  
I am now the Choir Director in our Ward. 
Nothing prepared me for this!  
I felt that I could do most callings in the church with my eyes closed.  
Well, I certainly can't close my eyes in this calling..except when I'm praying, which will be all the time now.  

The one thing I am sure of.  Heavenly Father is there for us when we are serving Him.  
(I'm counting on it!)

Sunday, April 20, 2014

Easter Egg Hunt, Darling Grandchildren..Family..I am a Blessed Woman

What a wonderful Easter!  And so fun to celebrate Jim's birthday on this special day.  Nothing better than to have these cute kids over for the annual Easter Egg hunt.  Just wish we could have the other half..Well later on in the summer.


We watched the kids hunt for eggs, play and have fun.  We can't get enough of our new little addition.  We are so grateful for all of these precious grandchildren.


And of course it wouldn't be a summer gathering without a little baseball.  Hey, PA Gang, we need a little coaching here.  

What a lovely Day.

I Love Jim's Brown eyes & and whole bunch more..Happy Birthday


April 20th is Jim's birthday.
Here are a few things I love about him.

I love how he takes care of me.
I love how he cares for his children.
I love how he smiles when he's around the grandkids.
I love watching him watch the grandson's play baseball.
I love how he can fix anything.
I love how he builds what I dream.
I love watching him mow the lawn.
I love travelling with him.
I love how he serves others.
I love how he treated his mother.
I love that he is emotional.
I love that he is steady.
I love that he is loyal.
I love that he is honest. 
I love that he loves our family.
I love his grin.
I love his beautiful brown eyes.

I love you.
Have a Happy Birthday.